Wentworth Miller – Active Minds Blog http://activemindsblog.org Changing the conversation about mental health Tue, 18 Jul 2017 21:00:04 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.7.5 Tell Me More: Wentworth Miller’s Suggestions on How to Start the Conversation http://activemindsblog.org/tell-me-more-how-to-start-the-conversation-with-someone-whos-struggling/ Mon, 28 Nov 2016 14:47:29 +0000 http://activemindsblog.org/?p=5899 Watch this short video clip to hear from two hugely committed #StigmaFighters!

Dani Lukens, an Active Minds outreach specialist, spoke with Wentworth Miller, the popular actor and Active Minds’ Ambassador for Mental Health, about how talking about someone’s mental health is not an easy conversation to have, and yet how important it is to try.

Wentworth Miller also provides some great suggestions, based on his own experiences, for what to say to someone you’re concerned about, and how having this conversation is one of the best first steps for helping someone who’s struggling.

We admire the way Dani and Wentworth fully embrace Active Minds’ mission to “change the conversation about mental health”!

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Dani: While on tour with Send Silence Packing, the most common feedback I get from students is “Thank you.” At every exhibit, I have students express their gratitude for bringing to light something that is still so difficult to talk about for many people. So when you first started talking about your own mental health, what were some of the reactions that you got from your family, your friends, your fans as well?

Wentworth: That’s an evolving conversation. I’ve said before that, we all have to come out many times and in many ways, and so for me it feels as though I’m coming out about my mental health history and situation almost on a daily basis.

And it’s different every time, depending on who you’re talking to. Some people are ready to have that conversation with me. Some people are ready to hold a space for the fact that I have experienced depression and I’ve had suicidal thoughts, that there have been long stretches in my life where I’ve struggled. Some people know how to be with that, and other people in my experience, don’t. They’re either triggered by that conversation because it brings up something in themselves, or there’s maybe a desire to immediately fix it and make it ok.

My preferred response is, “Tell me more.” My preferred response is, “How was that for you.” My preferred response is, “I’m sorry that that happened. What can I do to support you in this process?”

I think a lot of people, understandably, because the conversation is so new, don’t know how to speak into it, and so they choose not to. They choose to erect a wall of silence.

But my advice to someone who is wanting to speak into that conversation — because maybe they have a friend or loved one that they can see is going through something — is to start from a place of “I don’t know.” Use that as your springboard.

“I feel like you’re going through something. I see you going through something. But I don’t know what to do about it. I don’t know what to say exactly. I’m afraid of saying the wrong thing.”

And out of that admission, you’ve created a space that invites the other person to step into whatever their truth may be. The conversation has begun.

And I think that’s really the most important part of that whole process. Beginning the conversation. Whatever that looks like. And I think, “I don’t know how to begin the conversation” is a great start.

Welcome to Wentworth Miller, Active Minds Ambassador http://activemindsblog.org/welcome-wentworth-miller-active-minds-ambassador/ Tue, 18 Oct 2016 04:10:22 +0000 http://activemindsblog.org/?p=5749 wentworth_blog_768x384

Our office manager brought the staff meeting to a complete stop when he looked at his laptop and said, “We just got an email from Wentworth Miller.”

Stunned silence. Is it spam?

No, it looks legit.

And that’s when the energy in the room went sky high!

For several months, many of us had been following Wentworth from afar. We admired him then, as we do now, for his candor and commitment to using his experiences and celebrity to help change the conversation about mental health.

It has been a privilege to get to know the actor and screenwriter, and learn even more about his passion for suicide prevention and mental health awareness. And it is a true honor today to announce Wentworth Miller as Active Minds’ Ambassador for Mental Health.

His interest and dedication of time and energy is rooted in a deep, authentic commitment to fighting the stigma that surrounds mental health issues. As he told us:

“As someone who knows what it’s like to struggle with depression, I want to help give voice to the many people living with mental health issues. I want to help assure them that they’re not alone. These issues can be hard to discuss. It can be hard to start the conversation. So letting people know that it’s okay to ask for help is extremely important.

“I’m really proud to be part of the Active Minds’ movement for change, especially because college was a difficult time for me. This organization does so much for students, and that kind of work is close to my heart.”

We look forward to working alongside Wentworth Miller on our shared cause, in partnership with the more than 12,000 student members and the thousands of community supporters across the country who are at the heart of the Active Minds movement.

A warm welcome to you, #StigmaFighter!

Alison Malmon
Founder and Executive Director
Active Minds

» Read the press release here.